First things first I apologise for my absence, it's not that I haven't had anything to say, rather I've been lacking the time and motivation to do it. Though oddly enough now that I have come to write this I don't really know what to say. Fairly ironic I suppose.
I could tell you all about what's been happening in my life but I don't suppose that's what you're here for, besides which none of it is particularly thrilling. Though thinking back I would like to share one little anecdote.
If you have read some of my other blogs you will see that I am an opportunistic person, I enjoy taking what opportunities come my ways and making the most of them. However recently I have been thinking about how I am actually quite a narrow minded person when it comes to certain things. What I want to tell you about is how realising this has actually helped me. So here is my story.
Once upon a time a guy called Dan (not his real name) decided he was actually rather fond of reading comic books, he expressed his interest quietly for a while and then decided that he didn't care what people thought about him and decided he would publicly express his interest.This was the right thing to do, it showed that Dan had guts and morals.
Dan would talk about his comics to his friends and even though he knew they weren't really that interested in comics he still thought that they might like to hear about them, one person in particular he thought would listen was his girlfriend Beth. (not real name but if you can't figure out who this is well I'm ashamed!)
Dan was rather shocked when he found that Beth thought they were stupid and childish with out actually reading or even looking at them, but being a nice guy Dan decided that this was ok. It wasn't.
You see Beth had made a snap judgement and closed her mind to comics deciding that she was far too intelligent and 'cool' to read them.
Eventually Dan convinced Beth to read one, how ever even though Beth agreed she did so grudgingly and read it with a closed mind. This was no good at all as Beth had already decided that the comic was going to be boring and dull before even opening it. And so after reading Beth still decided that it was boring and dull because she had not opened her mind to the possibility that it could be good.
On hearing her verdict, Dan decided believed that her view was now fair as she had at least tried to read one, but Dan was being overly trust worthy of Beth and believed that she really had given it a fair chance.
Months later Dan was raving about a new series of comics and thought that Beth might enjoy them if she read the series as it began rather than halfway through, so he asked her again and to his surprise she agreed!
You see Beth could see that Dan really did love these comics, not for the blood and gore but for the stories, the art, the characters and so on, but she couldn't understand why! "They were rubbish" she thought to her self, but then she paused and asked her self why. Why did she think they were rubbish? Well she thought long and hard but could only come up with one answer "because they are!"
All of a sudden it hit Beth, she had never given them a chance, in fact there were a lot of things she had never given a chance and labelled them as rubbish or pointless or stupid for no real reason at all other than the fact that they were something out of the norm sometimes there wasn't even a reason!
So from then on Beth decided that she would be more open minded and actually give things a chance, starting with the comic! Do you know what? She actually enjoyed them, not just bared them but enjoyed them, though she didn't tell Dan this, not straight away at least, for fear it went to his head!
The end.
In a long winded way all I really wanted to say is that I know at some point we all close our minds to something for what ever reasons, but I'm going to promise that from now on I'll try to be more open minded perhaps we all should?
The end.
In a long winded way all I really wanted to say is that I know at some point we all close our minds to something for what ever reasons, but I'm going to promise that from now on I'll try to be more open minded perhaps we all should?

